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Ideal body

Postby Kiran » Fri May 21, 2010 2:45 am

I'm just curious. what would your ideal body look like, when it comes to primary and secondary sex characteristics?
Personaly when it comes to the downstairs department I'm cool with what I have now (I'm female bodied) but i would like a flat chest or att least very small breast.
I would love also to have less subcutaneous fat and less off a pear shaped body.
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Re: Ideal body

Postby Saturday » Fri May 21, 2010 3:42 am

Me? I would gladly have top surgery and go on T, but I don't want bottom surgery, really. I like what I have downstairs. And I think it would suit me best to be not quite one or the other. I want to be mostly masculine, but I'm not quite all-the-way a guy at heart. I really want a lean masculine build.

Also, some weird things about my ideal body? Hence my gender in the sidebar? I want to have ear reshaping so I have pointed ears, and I want dental caps so I have fangs. Those fangs are something I have always felt I needed. It's just a part of my inner image of myself, has been since I was a little kid, even if I don't really ID as a vampire. It's not a vamp thing, even, I just...I need fangs. </weird>
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Re: Ideal body

Postby omelu » Fri May 21, 2010 11:26 am

ideally? well I was going to say NOTHING downstairs but one has to pee, so, something for that I guess, but no reproductive organs thank you. I have 0 use for them and they give other people ideas. Other than that, I guess like the more straight up and down bodied women because you can go both ways with that, some slight curves for when I wanna play female but nothing that couldn't be hidden when I want to play male, and over all hard for people to peg on most days when I want to be NOTHING. Its not something you could actually do to me, but, there you are. Ideally I'd be a third sex, or a non-sex, really I guess.

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Re: Ideal body

Postby Chrysopoeia » Fri May 21, 2010 12:35 pm

I think I finally figured that one out.

I want a "boi's" body. That really, really effeminate, pretty-boy, typical boys-love manga uke body. That body that can easily pass for female if the hair is long and dressed in clothing from the women's section.

@Saturday: I want ear reshaping, too, but it's one of many things I'm terrified to pursue because of how other people will see me/judge me. *sigh* I wish people's opinions didn't matter to me so much.
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Re: Ideal body

Postby Kendall » Fri May 21, 2010 4:58 pm

Mt? here. Hopefully I will get a little more breast tissue this 4rth cycle of estrogen/spiro. in 3years. During off times been doing herbals. This time there will be progesterone, so hopefully it will add some new growth. Also I am hoping for a little more friendly curves. My face as I age can use some care. Wrinkles seem to be on their way, grey hairs, and stuff telling me I am not young anymore.

My housemate and I have been trying a diet she read about so will see where that goes, and what results it will attain.

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Re: Ideal body

Postby Sar » Fri May 21, 2010 10:27 pm

I'd like to be skinnier and I'd like a penis. Keep the breasts though-I don't mind those. No underarm hair would be nice too and a more defined 'happy trail' [curse this blond hair. ;)].

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Re: Ideal body

Postby Ji Tusk » Sun May 23, 2010 10:03 am

My ideal grown body, or my ideal surgically altered body?

Ideally, assuming I wouldn't have to deal with the displeasing surgeries and stuff, than a feminine male with a slightly larger build than what I have now. No facial hair, feminine features, male chest and genitalia.

If we're talking more medically altered, going off what I have now... Then a little more testosterone to my appearance (at least so I can build visible muscle mass) and a flat chest is all I need. Detachable genitalia, I think I'd be fine with, and not what comes out of surgery.
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Re: Ideal body

Postby Kinkly » Mon May 24, 2010 2:46 am

My Ideal body somewhat of an Hourglass fem shape small but obvious breasts, thick beard & Long Femme Hair.
Downstairs I'd have both Male & Female like parts and to be able to create children as either Male or Female but I know that isn't going to happen so I'll go with boy bits for reproduction and girl bits for toileting
to get rid of body hair would be great
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Re: Ideal body

Postby Kladeos » Mon May 24, 2010 10:50 am

Ideally, I'd be somewhere between 5'7" to 6', and resemble a scrawny boy with light muscle definition and more of a straight than a triangular build in the torso. I'd like minimal to no facial hair and minimal body hair, and detachable genitalia. Right now I'm short, female, scrawny with light muscle mass.

For what is possible, I'd like top-surgery. I'd go on T in a flash if it didn't mean body and facial hair.
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Re: Ideal body

Postby Samieboi » Sat May 29, 2010 5:38 am

im ok with my bodie like curve .. bc i dont really have any like i dont look every girly or manly (im female bodie). I would like to have top surgery. i really hate them things and would love to walk around without a shrit on. im ok with down stiars its whatever.. i would like to have more musicles. I would like to see one time what i would look like with facial hair... but that want happen.. bc i dont want to be on T. I want to be a mix of things... but in the end i see it as just wanting to be me
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Re: Ideal body

Postby itsa_wallaby » Tue Jun 01, 2010 6:22 pm

A lot of the time I want to have no breasts. (I haven't really cared recently though, so it's probably a good thing my scheduled top surgery conflicted with my finals.) I would also like to have no genitals - no girl parts and no guy parts, except maybe an enlarged clitoris or small penis. (Sorry if that's too explicit.) I'd like to be able to grow a goatee. I'd like my voice to be a bit deeper, and I'd like my face shape to be just a little more masculine so I could grow my hair out and still be taken for a guy most of the time. Except I like my nice short hair today. :P Could I have hair that changes length at will? While I'm on that route, can I just change my primary and secondary sex characteristics at will?
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Re: Ideal body

Postby Kai Reddtail » Tue Jun 01, 2010 9:48 pm

A flat chest. Oh, I want these weights on my body gone so badly....

Don't care about the lower parts though. Internally speaking, I wouldn't mind not having a uterus. I have no use for it. All it does is give me periods and the potential to get pregnant (which is my worst fear.)

Some decent muscle tone would be nice.

Non-sex-related stuff: A blue tongue, maybe some fangs. I am considering getting my tongue tattooed blue someday. lol.
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Re: Ideal body

Postby bright_frost » Thu Jun 03, 2010 11:02 pm

My ideal body... It'd be something similar to what Chrysopoeia said, about having a "boi" body. I'm fine with what I have downstairs (though I would really, really like to be rid of the uterus and ovaries), but would like to look more more masculine. I'd like to be able to pass for a girl if I felt like it, but not to just be assumed to be one, and I'd like to be able to pass for a boy if I wanted to. I'd like to be flat chested. Male kind of flat chested, not just smaller breasts. I hate my breasts. I'd also love to lose the hour-glass figure. Basically, I just don't want people to be able to pin me as male or female.
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Re: Ideal body

Postby SomethingOrOther » Wed Jun 09, 2010 1:36 pm

I don't really care about the "downstairs",it's fine as it is,though as someone already mention,I wouldn't mind not having a uterus(I don't want kids so it's useless to me.)As for secondary characteristics,I would love to have my waist moved farther down from its current position so that I would have a more masculine figure versus the hourglass I have now.I wouldn't have any breasts;they annoy me quite a bit.I'd love to get rid of some of the excess weight around my hips(and elsewhere) that make them so feminine looking,but not too much as I'm quite proud of my Brazilian bum.Face-wise,I'd want one that could go from looking male or female depending on makeup and hair,etc,almost like those really androgynous models(though I wouldn't need to be as pretty.)Basically,I'd like my secondary sex characteristics to be very ambiguous,so no breasts or beards since those both reflect a particular sex.
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Re: Ideal body

Postby omelu » Wed Jun 09, 2010 5:39 pm

Chrysopoeia wrote:I think I finally figured that one out.

I want a "boi's" body. That really, really effeminate, pretty-boy, typical boys-love manga uke body. That body that can easily pass for female if the hair is long and dressed in clothing from the women's section.

@Saturday: I want ear reshaping, too, but it's one of many things I'm terrified to pursue because of how other people will see me/judge me. *sigh* I wish people's opinions didn't matter to me so much.


oooh or this. But, I still don't like any of the human "downstairs" options. I want some kind of third body option for that.
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Re: Ideal body

Postby DixiePixie » Wed Jun 09, 2010 7:50 pm

Sar wrote:I'd like to be skinnier and I'd like a penis. Keep the breasts though-I don't mind those. No underarm hair would be nice too and a more defined 'happy trail']

This was basically what I was going to put about myself, hee. Except I've never been quite sure whether I want to keep my breasts as they are, I will probably eventually get them reduced in size or taken away. I love 'happy trails'! :mrgreen: My belly doesn't have hair elsewhere, which I wouldn't want, I have a little line from my belly button though that I keep (even though I shave underarm/leg hair off because I don't want that, and wouldn't want if I had a guy-body either) cause I like it there, I think it's sexy when guys have it too.
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Re: Ideal body

Postby intermundi » Mon Jun 14, 2010 6:27 pm

"Downstairs" I would like having naothing, except when needed for peeing or conceiving children (unless there is a better way); and I would not want any body or facial hair; maybe breasts (as long as they are small).

As for non-sex/-gender-related stuff: At times I would like to have a non-solid body.
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Re: Ideal body

Postby omelu » Wed Jun 16, 2010 6:01 pm

intermundi wrote:
As for non-sex/-gender-related stuff: At times I would like to have a non-solid body.


I've been wanting to be non-corporeal myself.
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Re: Ideal body

Postby smischmal » Wed Jun 16, 2010 7:37 pm

Alright. I'm into transhumanism as well, so I've actually given a fair bit of thought to ultimate goals as well. Here are two options.

Option the First: Still technically human
I'd like to have slight hips and narrower shoulders. I'm not a big fan of (read: I hate) my body and facial (except sideburns) hair and would happily not grow it. Upstairs, I wouldn't mind slight breasts, small ones that would be visible under tighter clothes but could still be concealed under baggier shirts or easily bound. Downstairs, I don't really care that much. I only really need equipment down there in order to dispose of liquid waste after all. A penis has it's advantages of being able to aim easily, but my balls just get in the way and so I could live without them. (It strikes me as odd that there seems to be no way to talk about this topic without sounding [at least to myself] as overly technical or overly crude).

Option the Second: Straight up posthuman awesomeness
I want casters mounted in my hands and feet so that while barefoot, I could skate around. I want skin that is composed of variable colour displays that can display constant or changing patterns of backlit or unlit images. I could, for instance, adopt any skin tone I wish or display videos on any part of my body or create strictly temporary tattoos for aesthetic purposes. My fingers ought to split up further out on my hand and have a greater range of motion. My arms could split into two sets a la General Grievous and my facial features would be flattened, like they'd been smoothed out (like Lord Voldemort).
And of course, this absolutely must be coupled with a high powered robotic replacement brain with multiple failsafes and backups and with access to the world wide web.
I also think it would be cool to be a flock of tiny robotic fairys for a little while, but I certainly wouldn't want that as a permanant state. It would be more just to see what it would be like to be a swarm rather than a single discrete body.
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Re: Ideal body

Postby not_quite_pie » Wed Jun 23, 2010 11:22 am

Androgynous and thinner would be good for me. Maybe get rid of the breasts altogether.
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