My mom told my sister and my grandmom. She forced me to talk about it, because my grandmom is going paranoid and is adamant I'm being sexually abused. My other grandmom knows now, too. They literally cornered me for about 45 mins today and tried to force me to talk about it - I ended up nearly physically hurting my mom and on the ride home had to jump out of the car as soon as it stopped at a stop sign, because I just couldn't be around them anymore. I ran home.
Vibe wrote:I don't know what happened or what you told your family members today, but somehow I have a feeling they want to help you. It occurs to me the only way to change your situation is to tell them about it. Maybe you will be able to spend some time with your grandparents to relieve the stress then?
LeoNine wrote:Why did you run from them/your mum? Why didn't you take this opportunity and tell them what you've written here? Or if you did, and please don't read me as being judgmental, why did you feel the need to hurt your mum and later get away from her?
If all this started five/six years ago, what triggered it? If nothing was obvious to you at that time, is it possible your father is displaying this behaviour towards you because something happened to him at your age back then that he's reliving now and is maybe not fully aware of it himself?
EJA wrote:Recursive; I don't feel the need to address it - I can just live through it for a little more than a year, then I'm graduated and out of here forever.
Recursive Paradox wrote:the more you pull away the more he'll push. This rate of escalation could easily make it to actual abuse within a few months and you think you're okay for an entire year?
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