Interview or not? edited: Forced to come out?

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Postby EJA » Sun Mar 14, 2010 10:48 am

Yea. At least she didn't kick me out or tell the entire world and so on. She did, however, secretly call all my friends and ask if I was a "lesbian" or going through a "stage" and all that jazz. Whatever. I'd rather her disapprove by way of intense denial than her trying to 'change' me.
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Re: Interview or not? edited: Forced to come out?

Postby Ji Tusk » Mon Mar 22, 2010 1:14 pm

Ouch, hearing that hurts a little bit. >_<
I agree though. At least she's being more passive than aggressive about it.
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Re: Interview or not? edited: Forced to come out?

Postby Kass-ID » Mon Mar 22, 2010 1:42 pm

EJA wrote:Yea. At least she didn't kick me out or tell the entire world and so on. She did, however, secretly call all my friends and ask if I was a "lesbian" or going through a "stage" and all that jazz. Whatever. I'd rather her disapprove by way of intense denial than her trying to 'change' me.


If you were a lesbian, why would you tell her your transgender? As for "going through a 'stage,'" this line has been used to discount peoples true feeling for decades, it's sad.
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Re: Interview or not? edited: Forced to come out?

Postby EJA » Mon Mar 22, 2010 6:06 pm

Kass-ID wrote:
EJA wrote:Yea. At least she didn't kick me out or tell the entire world and so on. She did, however, secretly call all my friends and ask if I was a "lesbian" or going through a "stage" and all that jazz. Whatever. I'd rather her disapprove by way of intense denial than her trying to 'change' me.


If you were a lesbian, why would you tell her your transgender? As for "going through a 'stage,'" this line has been used to discount peoples true feeling for decades, it's sad.


It's a long story. Basically - My ex-therapist, she, and I all sat in the room together to work it out (against my will), to which my mom said that she "found out" I was a lesbian who was planning on changing my name and wearing a binder and all that. Since she knew the basics of it anyway, I told her (or rather, my ex-therapist told her since I was too busy freaking out about her finding out) that I was actually a boy, and that I like boys, not girls. I don't think she gets it still (and of course she's in major denial), but it doesn't matter. I'll go to college and then I won't have to see her again until breaks.
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