"Insert penis A with condom C into vagina B"

[nome]

For some people, though, foreplay IS the sex.

Beautifully put! I mean, all of it. But I connect w/ that part.

[Shadow Dragon]

Very well put Zainen. I also believe that foreplay is important. Though I tend to prefer D/s play over S/M. So yeah, sex is a lot more than insert object A into hole B.

[adfhfbrwrew12]

Though I tend to prefer D/s play over S/M.

Me too, but I generally lump it into S&M in brief discussions because a lot of people don't know the difference. Heck, a lot of people don't seem to know the difference between D\s, S&M, and bondage.

[CCkizz]

Sex involving internal girl-bits is pretty much impossible to me.…[snip]… I'm pretty sure if I were with a female-bodied person I couldn't even consider touching them down there because it'd just be a reminder of what I have, even if it's on someone else.…[snip]

I'm a trans woman. I consider myself to be bi, but sex with guys…. Yeah. Not quite into it. I'm more open to being sexual with girls. I've been thinking, maybe guys parts remind me too much of what I don't like having, making it a turn off to be with them.

[Dandro]

I HATE the idea of being penetrated. It just seems so intrusive. I've tried it a few times as a girl, and it barely even felt good. It was just like, okay are you done? As far as being on the opposite end, I think if I had an actual penis attached to me I'd enjoy it more. I've tried it with my strap-on and it was just tiring and boring, since I didn't feel anything. I consider myself pansexual, but I'm not attracted to vaginas at all. I wish I could say I'm not attracted to genitals in general, but unfortunately I find penis more appealing in most cases. Although, I don't want one in me. Vaginas used to disgust me. Now they are just a part of the body that I don't pay much mind to. I'm more attracted to a person than their genitals, so it's not really all that important. Though I've never actually had sex involving vagina, I don't think it would bother me. I have issues with sex in general now, and would prefer just making out and possibly grinding if I was comfortable enough with the person. For the person that said sometimes foreplay IS sex, I agree with that. The actual act of sex just doesn't appeal to me anymore.

[SarahNicole]

[Warning: NSFW. Crude content follows. Those under eighteen are advised, if applicable, to ask a parent or guardian before proceeding.]

Okay... Maybe it's just a phase. But for some reason, the more I think about it, the more I find the idea of *ahem* penetrative vaginal sex to be rather off-putting.

It's not that vaginas (or penises) don't appeal to me; there are people who I think I would, uh, "go down on" in about two seconds if they asked me. (Not that I've ever actually done that.) But the idea of sticking my set of genitals into someone else's and thrusting just seems weird. And so very crude. Humorous perhaps, but, at least on a cognitive level, not hot at all. Granted, I've never done it so the usual things about lack of experience apply; but if I got the chance to do it, I'm not actually sure I would, or sure that I'd really enjoy it. I feel like I'd either be really weirded out, or just laugh like a lunatic.

(Although strangely, if I actually had a vagina, I wouldn't mind being, um, penetrated. In fact that feels *cough* more "right" in my mind. Weird.)

Also I must say that the modern terminology of sex doesn't help. Guys talk about "pussy" like it's... well... a thing. As opposed to part of a person. It's really quite gross. When I hear people talking about sex (or see the headers of those f**king penis enlargement spams) it doesn't make me horny, it makes me feel like losing my lunch.

I can't be the only one like this, can I? There must even be some cis/hetero guys out there who feel this way. I mean how can "skewering her ham wallet" possibly be construed as sexy?

(I'm sorry... I have to stop before I throw up.)

Myself, I also don't think I'd enjoy using my biological genitals to penetrate somebody else. I've thought about what it might feel like, and I might have fantasized about doing so for a total of 1 minute throughout my entire career of masturbation (lol?), I oh so dearly want to be penetrated very badly. I've occasionally used a dildo in my ass while I masturbate, but lately that's been getting painful (I should find a slightly smaller dildo. lol)

(Man, just thinking - it's so surreal to be able to openly talk about this kind of thing. It feels so liberating to say that I like dick... >.<)

[AneA]

Penetration has never been part of sex for me, well I have tried it few times but it wasn't really my thing (if I am the one penetrating that is), it felt akward if anything. But luckily my partners like all kinds of sex so we never run out of options. That's benefit of having a sadist, bondage loving seme who has the same views on gender as I do among others.

Me too, but I generally lump it into S&M in brief discussions because a lot of people don't know the difference. Heck, a lot of people don't seem to know the difference between D\s, S&M, and bondage.

As these are often so mixed together in many people you can not blame some for not knowing the difference, as it's all in the same fetish category for them. But, that is why people need to be educated so they will learn. ^^
The average Joe/Jane has rather limited views on sex anyway, although the introduction of the internet has been doing a good job opening the eyes of many.

But the fact is that sex education in schools (at least around here) for example is simply awful. Teens are "taught" to be boring and clueless. =/