reintroducin myself.

[Yoh]

Cause I"m lazy, and forgot this place existed.

I'm Yoh, or Olivia, I'm 18, and I live in Texas(at least now), I'm a big nerd, and I like music.

I don't have much to say :p

[Alder]

well, um... welcome back! XD

[Theory]

lol! Yoh, you kinda rocked just now.

[Sammicat]

oh please, go the fuck away. im sick and fucking tired of you pretending to be trans. i promised myself i wouldnt bring the fucking drama out but seriously, GO THE FUCK AWAY.
note this is pointed at yoh, the person who referred to me as a "trap" and a "fucking tranny" for the first year i knew HIM. HE is not trans in anyway whatsoever. and im sick and fucking tired of the little shit claiming to be so.

[Theory]

lol! Yoh, you kinda rocked just now.

O.O apparently one of us (OMC) already said hi... so, on to the next thing.

oh please, go the fuck away. im sick and fucking tired of you pretending to be trans. i promised myself i wouldnt bring the fucking drama out but seriously, GO THE FUCK AWAY.
note this is pointed at yoh, the person who referred to me as a "trap" and a "fucking tranny" for the first year i knew HIM. HE is not trans in anyway whatsoever. and im sick and fucking tired of the little shit claiming to be so.

So, wow. That really sucks that you had this bad experience with Yoh. I don't want to invalidate your experiences with Yoh or your feelings. So, I won't. Those are yours experiences and feelings. I will say though, that as of yet, I haven't witnessed Yoh saying anything specifically anti-trans on whatisgender. And, I like to think that people can be a process, unfinished and able to grow. Whether Yoh now identifies as trans or considers yoh-self to be an ally or someone who is just looking for more information, I feel that for now, I want to extend a welcome to Yoh here. If shit turns up here then I feel like we could address it as it comes. After all, currently typing to you is me, a former homophobic "Bible thumper". I try to hold out hope that people can grow out of hostility towards one another.

I don't know how everyone else feels about that.

[Alder]

I have to agree with Theory, while I empathize with your experience with Yoh, Sammi, I can not simply judge someone by anothers claims; as such I've yet to experience anything negative from Yoh. I will remain a bit weary, but give Yoh her own chance to prove herself as a decent being or not.

[Sammicat]

you do what you do. the lying little shit only wants to find somewhere to fit in. and while i understand that, claiming to be something you arent just pisses me off ESPECIALLY after what has been said to me by this person.
meh.
anyway, carry on all.
Yoh, i'll be watching you, you little fucker.

[Theory]

you do what you do. the lying little shit only wants to find somewhere to fit in. and while i understand that, claiming to be something you arent just pisses me off ESPECIALLY after what has been said to me by this person.
meh.
anyway, carry on all.
Yoh, i'll be watching you, you little fucker.

Im not ok with this. The only hostility I see directed at another whatisgender community member , at the moment is coming from you metalhead_sammi. It looks and feels bad to me. Regadless of whar yoh may have done outside of the board, when I see you talk to/about someone here like that, I feel like you are being a bully.

[Sammicat]

you do what you do. the lying little shit only wants to find somewhere to fit in. and while i understand that, claiming to be something you arent just pisses me off ESPECIALLY after what has been said to me by this person.
meh.
anyway, carry on all.
Yoh, i'll be watching you, you little fucker.

Im not ok with this. The only hostility I see directed at another whatisgender community member , at the moment is coming from you metalhead_sammi. It looks and feels bad to me. Regadless of whar yoh may have done outside of the board, when I see you talk to/about someone here like that, I feel like you are being a bully.

sorry, don't expect me to be all open arms to someone who's referred to me as a "fucking tranny", and who purports to be TG but isnt. on some serious shit, ill be just as hostile as i want to this lowlife. and to be honest, i dont give a rats ass if it feels bad to you. i feel bad being called a "fucking tranny" or a "trap" by this texan piece of shit.
so dont get all fuckin high and mighty with me. im gonna stay away from this thread now, because its bringing out a side in my i dont like to let see daylight. im gonna go back to being all smiles about my transition, and being a growly goddess of metal goodness.
good day to you.

[Theory]

Now you have become verbally hostile to me and I have not lobbed slurs at you or pretended to be someone I am not. however I am the second community member you have been aggressive towards.

[Alder]

No one is expecting anyone to be all open arms to someone who they've had previous bad experiences with. The point is that there is no reason to be so blatantly hostile in 'public', if there is a transgression between two people it is between them and perhaps the moderators of administrators of a forum(if it comes to that point). With you're current attitude I'm starting to wonder what was don't on your part, Sammi, to generate such hostile words to have been spoken to you; but I'm starting to sound accusational and I wish not to so I'll stop at that. I do hope the high ground is taken and that you don't return to this thread, if you're not fond of someone generally the higher ground to move around them is the best to take.

[Kass-ID]

Moderator Voice:
I'm going to ask everyone to cool down on this thread. It seems to me that there is a personal issue being discussed in a public place. Clearly emotions are running hot. Regardless of personal history, board members are expected to be respectful on this forum, as stated in the forum rules.